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So many great songs here!

ok, I have not dated since about 1969, just before my wife of 51 years and I started living together, but please believe - as a fellow sociologist 😉 - I can very much relate to the relationships thing. And so, some of my faves here are songs from when my wife and I were starting to be together or even from when we first met as teenagers: I Got You Babe, Unchained Melody, You Really Got A Hold On Me. But then I Melt With You is one of my fave songs ever ever ever - it reaches the heart of loving.

Missing?

Bruce Springsteen’s She’s The One:

Oh, and just one kiss

She'd fill them long summer nights

With her tenderness

That secret pact you made

Back when her love could save you

From the bitterness

A song of love that once was burning, but now is troubled, maybe lost

And Springsteen again, Secret Garden:

She'll lead you down a path

There'll be tenderness in the air

She'll let you come just far enough

So you know she's really there

She'll look at you and smile

And her eyes will say

She's got a secret garden

Where everything you want

Where everything you need

Will always stay

A million miles away

Does that capture the realisation that there may always be a deep part of your lover that is theirs alone, unknowable, and always will be? (‘you've gone a million miles, how far'd you get?’)

And if you listen to LeAnn Rimes’ cover of this song, all the feeling she puts into it, plainly from her own relationship experiences, you get it all (as LeAnn has said, ‘This song breaks my heart, I couldn’t hold back the tears covering it’):

https://youtu.be/AzqEz5gBUQw?si=-yXQ7vBzj4BZ3xL8

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This is great, Jack! Never enough Bruce :)

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From another Jerz boy who first saw Bruce on 1 Nov 1974 (Tower Theatre in Upper Darby, at the end of the Philly El), and was transfixed from the opening notes (a stunningly hypnotic ‘Incident on 57th Street’, w/just Roy Bittan on the piano and the angelic Suki Lahav on violin) to the last encore (I think it was ‘A Live So Fine’) over 3 hours later

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LOVE so fine :)

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